
October is Mental Health Awareness Month, and at meVSme we want to talk about something that is just as important as building strength, improving fitness or changing your body composition:
How you feel.
We spend a lot of time talking about looking after our bodies, but our physical and mental health aren't separate. The way we eat, move, sleep, connect with others and manage stress can all play a role in how we feel.
And sometimes, when you're struggling, the thought of overhauling your diet, smashing out a workout or "getting yourself together" can feel completely overwhelming.
So we're not going to tell you to do that.
We're going to encourage you to start small.
You may have heard the gut described as our "second brain."
There's a good reason we're learning so much about the gut-brain connection. Your digestive system and brain communicate through a complex network involving the nervous system, immune system, hormones and the trillions of microorganisms that make up the gut microbiome.
Here's an interesting fact: around 90% of the serotonin in the body is produced in the gastrointestinal tract. However, gut-produced serotonin doesn't simply travel into the brain, it cannot cross the blood-brain barrier. Instead, researchers are continuing to investigate the many different pathways through which gut health and the brain communicate.
That's why looking after your gut isn't about finding one magical "happy food." It's about giving your body the nutrients it needs to function well.
A varied diet containing vegetables, fruit, wholegrains, legumes, nuts and seeds, healthy fats and good-quality protein can help provide fibre and nutrients and support a diverse gut microbiome.
Think nourishment, not perfection.
Have you ever had a terrible day and suddenly found yourself standing in front of the pantry?
You're certainly not alone.
Food doesn't only satisfy physical hunger. It can also provide pleasure, comfort and distraction.
Highly palatable foods, particularly combinations high in sugar, fat and/or salt interact with our brain's reward pathways. Research suggests that eating these foods can temporarily reduce feelings of stress or negative emotion in some people, which helps explain why emotional eating can feel genuinely comforting in the moment.
The problem isn't that you've "failed" because you ate chocolate.
That momentary comfort may not address what caused the stress, loneliness, anxiety, sadness or exhaustion in the first place. And if we then add guilt and self-criticism afterwards, we can create another cycle:
Feel stressed β eat for comfort β briefly feel better β feel guilty β feel worse β seek comfort again.
Instead of judging yourself, try getting curious.
Ask yourself:
"Am I physically hungry, or am I looking for comfort right now?"
If the answer is comfort, that's okay. You might still choose to eat! But perhaps you can also give yourself something else you may need, like a walk, a shower, some fresh air, a phone call with a friend, an early night or simply five quiet minutes.
We often think about exercise in terms of calories, weight, muscle or fitness.
But movement can be incredibly valuable for our mental wellbeing too.
Exercise influences numerous biological systems involved in mood and stress regulation, including neurotransmitters, endorphins, inflammation and our body's response to stress. It can also give us something that's harder to measure: a sense of achievement.
That little feeling of:
"I did something good for myself today."
The evidence supporting physical activity and mental health is significant. A large review of 97 systematic reviews involving more than 128,000 participants found that physical activity was associated with improvements in symptoms of depression, anxiety and psychological distress.
More recent research has also found benefits from aerobic exercise, resistance training and combinations of the two for people experiencing depression and anxiety.
But here's the part we really want you to remember:
More isn't always the answer. Something is better than nothing.
Research examining physical activity and depression has found that benefits can be seen even at activity levels below standard physical-activity recommendations.
So please don't think that looking after your mental health means you suddenly need to train five days a week.
A ten-minute walk counts.
A gentle yoga class counts.
Lifting some weights counts.
Stretching and moving your body counts.
Dancing around the kitchen absolutely counts.
This is where we believe things become really powerful.
Eating well can help support your body's nutritional needs.
Moving can support your physical and mental wellbeing.
And doing those things with other people can add connection, belonging, accountability and support.
Sometimes the hardest thing when we're feeling low or anxious is getting started.
You might not feel motivated.
You might want to cancel your session.
You might want to stay home.
And some days, rest genuinely is what you need.
But on other days, taking that first small step, putting your shoes on, walking through the door and being around people who know your name, may be exactly what helps.
You don't have to be bubbly.
You don't have to pretend you're okay.
You don't even have to have a great workout.
You can simply show up.
If you're struggling at the moment, forget the massive health overhaul.
Try one thing.
Move for 10 minutes. Walk around the block, stretch, garden, lift weights or do something you enjoy.
Add before you subtract. Instead of thinking about everything you "shouldn't" eat, add something nutritious, some vegetables, fruit, protein, wholegrains or an extra glass of water.
Create one regular meal. If everything feels chaotic, focus on making just one meal each day balanced and nourishing.
Get outside. Fresh air, movement and a change of environment can be a simple circuit-breaker.
Connect with someone. Send the message. Make the phone call. Come to class. Have coffee catch-up.
Set a tiny goal. Not "I'm going to completely change my life." Try: "Today I'm going for a 10-minute walk."
Then tomorrow?
Do it again.
Small actions become habits. Habits become routines. And routines can become part of the support system that helps carry us through harder periods.
At meVSme, myself and our coaches are here to listen, encourage you, support you and help you take positive steps with your movement, nutrition and wellbeing.
But there is also an important boundary we want to be very clear about.
We are Personal Trainers and health and fitness professionals. We are not psychologists, psychiatrists or mental health clinicians.
Exercise, nutritious food, sleep, routine and social connection can form valuable parts of looking after your mental health, but they are not substitutes for professional mental health care when that care is needed.
If anxiety, depression, overwhelming thoughts or changes in your mood are persistent, worsening or affecting your ability to function, please speak with your GP or a qualified mental health professional.
And if things feel too heavy to carry alone, please reach out.
Lifeline Australia
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Beyond Blue
Free mental health support and counselling, 24/7
Call 1300 22 4636
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Black Dog Institute
Evidence-based information, resources and mental health support pathways
Black Dog Institute
Mental health doesn't always look like someone falling apart.
Sometimes it looks like cancelling plans.
Sometimes it's losing motivation to train.
Sometimes it's eating when you're not hungry, struggling to sleep, withdrawing from people or simply saying, "I'm fine" when you're really not.
This Mental Health Awareness Month, we'd love you to pay as much attention to what's happening inside as you do to what you see in the mirror.
Eat to nourish yourself.
Move because your body deserves movement.
Connect because humans need humans.
Rest when you need rest.
And ask for help when you need help.
You don't have to change everything today.
Just take one small step. Then another.
And remember, the meVSme community is here to walk alongside you.
Your People. Your Place. The Change in Me. π

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